happythoughts 0 #1 February 5, 2011 last night, i ran into "that guy". he was pretty good at it. first, he comes in and finds the youngest girls in the bar (probably the ones with the least experience at this moment). then, he starts picking on them. making fun of them in a way that finds an insecurity (weight, education, future). but - he positions himself as having all that. she is not worthy. he is assertive and talks down all women. they don't know "the way out", the solution to all their problems. if they were good enough... if he makes them mad enough, he can wind them up. they get furious... but stick around to argue. (that is the sign. they want to fix him) once they are mad enough, the flip. he apologizes (bad day). says they are probably mad at him. now they say it is ok. they offer a solution. it is going somewhere. here is the skill. he holds out that solution, but yanks it back. love and money are there. he can help them get that new car for some time in his club or a few pics. he's a master of human nature and a pimp. of course, anyone can use those skills anywhere. i think of that guy when i see someone in a really frustrating argument that isn't going anywhere, maybe. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JohnMitchell 16 #2 February 5, 2011 That's not a very nice guy. Master manipulator, I'd say. Pretty marketable skill set, though. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #3 February 5, 2011 Quote That's not a very nice guy. Master manipulator, I'd say. Pretty marketable skill set, though. I see those skills in use in the most interesting places. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Niki1 2 #4 February 5, 2011 He was a skinny guy, right? He used to sell Sham Wows?Most of the things worth doing in the world had been declared impossilbe before they were done. Louis D Brandeis Where are we going and why are we in this basket? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Coreece 190 #5 February 5, 2011 Quote He was a skinny guy, right? He used to sell Sham Wows? Don't forget about the Slap Chop to! You're gonna love my nuts. - 0:35The parodies and remixes are a little funny also. like this one: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B7QIcxoJU4gYour secrets are the true reflection of who you really are... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Niki1 2 #6 February 5, 2011 Quote Quote He was a skinny guy, right? He used to sell Sham Wows? Don't forget about the Slap Chop to! I think the slap chop is what the prositute did to him. Did you see the pictures? It looked like he had the shit smacked out of him. Most of the things worth doing in the world had been declared impossilbe before they were done. Louis D Brandeis Where are we going and why are we in this basket? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites