Nataly 38 #51 February 11, 2011 QuoteIf you meant that then why didn't you say so? The dictionary definition for the word mediocre is: Quoteme·di·o·cre [mee-dee-oh-ker] Show IPA –adjective 1. of only ordinary or moderate quality; neither good nor bad; barely adequate. 2. rather poor or inferior. You know you can't just redefine the meaning of words based on your feelings? And why would I be bitter if I have nothing to be bitter about? Both definitions apply... Not of great quality according to my tastes. I didn't change the definition or misuse the word. And dude, your statements on women are highly offensive. Perhaps you need to change your view to more accurately reflect reality... Saying that most women bring nothing to the table aside from a vagina is just as offensive (and wrong) as saying that most men have nothing offer but money..."There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skybytch 273 #52 February 11, 2011 This one's easy. Don't get or do anything. She may get all pissy and hurt and never speak to you again. Don't be upset. This is a VERY good sign that life with her would be a horrible trial in which everything you have ever worked for is going to end up in her hands. Be happy you have avoided this by acting early. Of course, there is a slim possibility that she will think that you not getting her anything is awesome, cuz it means she doesn't have to get anything for you. In this case, immediately attempt to shift from dry humping to wet and start making serious moves to lock this one down. She's a keeper. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
regulator 0 #53 February 11, 2011 hey its all good..2 or 3 people at once? Sounds a bit complicated....but if you dont get them anything perhaps they give you something...like ghonorrhea Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shah269 0 #54 February 11, 2011 Quote Dating 5 women at once? Shah, you don't need advice, you need to GIVE advice. No brother I would not say I'm in 5 relationships at once. I'm "seeing" 5 girls on and off. It's the "I don't want to have nothing to do this Saturday night theory on life." AKA why you have a reserve! After all why put all your chips on one number and then have it now preform and then be sitting on your couch eating pizza and drinking a beer wondering...."Am I really that ugly of a dude?" I would hang with my friends, but all of my no skydiving friends are married with kids and all my skydiving friends are away :-( So I guess you can say I'm hedging my bets on not being disappointed and right now, it's all about me. One calls off, line twist, line over, undies packed into the lines, Gopro stuck in the center cell, blown toggles....go for silver and skip a night alone.Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
airtwardo 7 #55 February 11, 2011 And well I'm 34, I really don't want to be single till I'm 43 and well...how else can you do it? Quote dood~you GOTTA quit worrying about that stuff! I was 37 when I met my SO, and it took another 3 years to domesticate it. Just live your life and have fun, ALL of your posts regarding relationships reek of desperation...that's like blood in the water, you're gotta get eaten alive! Your last one really fucked you up, you gotta get right with that before you even consider hooking up long term with the next EX. ~ If you choke a Smurf, what color does it turn? ~ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
piisfish 140 #56 February 11, 2011 don't expect anything, like that all that comes will be bonus scissors beat paper, paper beat rock, rock beat wingsuit - KarlM Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shah269 0 #57 February 11, 2011 Sorry mate....too much time taking too many risk analysis and six sigma classes....the world is one big system to me. But hey it's fun, meet new people go out if it doesn't work....we can still be friends. As per the words of my mentor, El Pablo, "A man should never ask the ladies out, it should be a pull system not a push." Very zen of him! Don't you think? Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
david3 0 #58 February 11, 2011 Quote dood~you GOTTA quit worrying about that stuff! I was 37 when I met my SO, and it took another 3 years to domesticate it. Just live your life and have fun, ALL of your posts regarding relationships reek of desperation...that's like blood in the water, you're gotta get eaten alive! Your last one really fucked you up, you gotta get right with that before you even consider hooking up long term with the next EX. Did you just refer to your wife as an “it” that needed to be domesticated? +1 on everything else you said. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
airtwardo 7 #59 February 11, 2011 Quote Quote dood~you GOTTA quit worrying about that stuff! I was 37 when I met my SO, and it took another 3 years to domesticate it. Just live your life and have fun, ALL of your posts regarding relationships reek of desperation...that's like blood in the water, you're gotta get eaten alive! Your last one really fucked you up, you gotta get right with that before you even consider hooking up long term with the next EX. Did you just refer to your wife as an “it” that needed to be domesticated? +1 on everything else you said. No...the relationship IT was domesticated, you know the whole 'house, dog, lawn mower...personalized trash cans' thing. We were 'together' but living 1/2 a world apart 1/2 the time... living two separate lives yet doing so together, finally said if this is forever, we need to live closer! ~ If you choke a Smurf, what color does it turn? ~ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nataly 38 #60 February 11, 2011 Quote This is a no brainer... V-day gift = sex for guys. well for most guys that is.... Yep... That's what my man is getting - and the best part is he can "re-gift" it right back to me!! "There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bolas 5 #61 February 11, 2011 Quote Quote This is a no brainer... V-day gift = sex for guys. well for most guys that is.... Yep... That's what my man is getting - and the best part is he can "re-gift" it right back to me!! Generally not right back, return processing takes a little time... Stupidity if left untreated is self-correcting If ya can't be good, look good, if that fails, make 'em laugh. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nataly 38 #62 February 11, 2011 Quote Quote Quote This is a no brainer... V-day gift = sex for guys. well for most guys that is.... Yep... That's what my man is getting - and the best part is he can "re-gift" it right back to me!! Generally not right back, return processing takes a little time... True... Plus it needs to be re-packaged!!! "There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wmw999 2,560 #63 February 11, 2011 Ya know, I just thought of the perfect response to this thread. You should ask each of the young ladies if she's she's giving you. Then you'll know if you should expect to get anything Wendy P. There is nothing more dangerous than breaking a basic safety rule and getting away with it. It removes fear of the consequences and builds false confidence. (tbrown) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 226 #64 February 11, 2011 Quote Ya know, I just thought of the perfect response to this thread. You should ask each of the young ladies if she's she's giving you. Then you'll know if you should expect to get anything Wendy P. Meh - save the money and go with the one that you think will put out and roll the dice.I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skymama 37 #65 February 11, 2011 Just don't contact any of them between now and Wednesday, problem solved.She is Da Man, and you better not mess with Da Man, because she will lay some keepdown on you faster than, well, really fast. ~Billvon Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shah269 0 #66 February 11, 2011 Quote Ya know, I just thought of the perfect response to this thread. You should ask each of the young ladies if she's she's giving you. Then you'll know if you should expect to get anything Wendy P. I What a girl! What a catch Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bolas 5 #67 February 11, 2011 Quote Quote Quote Quote This is a no brainer... V-day gift = sex for guys. well for most guys that is.... Yep... That's what my man is getting - and the best part is he can "re-gift" it right back to me!! Generally not right back, return processing takes a little time... True... Plus it needs to be re-packaged!!! Unless it's delivered around back... Stupidity if left untreated is self-correcting If ya can't be good, look good, if that fails, make 'em laugh. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nataly 38 #68 February 11, 2011 Quote Quote Quote Quote Quote This is a no brainer... V-day gift = sex for guys. well for most guys that is.... Yep... That's what my man is getting - and the best part is he can "re-gift" it right back to me!! Generally not right back, return processing takes a little time... True... Plus it needs to be re-packaged!!! Unless it's delivered around back... I find this response vulgar and shocking. Well done!! "There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VanillaSkyGirl 6 #69 February 11, 2011 Expectations are somewhat unfounded at this point, if you've only spent time with them on two or three dates & have not felt a great connection to one specific girl. Once one of these girls is special or stands out to you, and you want to do something special for her, then do so. If there is a connection, you will know. Otherwise, if you have to ask, then the answer is most likely "no". Do whatever feels right. Nothing should be done because it's "expected". Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JohnMitchell 16 #70 February 11, 2011 Quote Quote Dating 5 women at once? Shah, you don't need advice, you need to GIVE advice. No brother I would not say I'm in 5 relationships at once. I'm "seeing" 5 girls on and off. Ahh, I see the problem. You confuse dating with relationships.A date is a date. A relationship is a lot more than that. Heck, used to be you could be dating a couple of women at just one DZ. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ryoder 1,590 #71 February 11, 2011 Quote No...the relationship IT was domesticated, you know the whole 'house, dog, lawn mower...personalized trash cans' thing. In other words, it was you that got domesticated."There are only three things of value: younger women, faster airplanes, and bigger crocodiles" - Arthur Jones. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shah269 0 #72 February 11, 2011 Quote Ahh, I see the problem. You confuse dating with relationships.A date is a date. A relationship is a lot more than that. Heck, used to be you could be dating a couple of women at just one DZ. Nope we jive, we talking the same lingo. Just hedging my bets. Countering the usual flakiness of SOME in the female species..... Such is life I guess.Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
guppie01 0 #73 February 11, 2011 Quote Quote Just hedging my bets, just hedging my bets.....and you know what...the odds are never 100%. I can hedge and organize and think all I want and it can all go up in smoke in 4 days. take some well earned expierience as advice . . . DO NOT OVER BOOK! bwahahahahahaha g"Let's do something romantic this Saturday... how bout we bust out the restraints?" Raddest Ho this side of Jersey #1 - MISS YOU OMG, is she okay? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ManagingPrime 0 #74 February 11, 2011 My advice. Find something nice that you can do for 4 of them. Something that will make them feel special and wanted on a day where for many it can be important. Whoever you think you might have the best long-term chances with. Take her out. Nice dinner, thoughtful gift, etc. Explain why you are out with her and your "bet hedging" idea. Any long-term serious relationship and they will have to know, understand and love you...including your logical (perhaps to an extreme) thought process regarding finding a mate. If number 5 does not completely flip out you might have a winner. If she does flip out...well, you've got 4 more. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shah269 0 #75 February 12, 2011 Quote My advice. Find something nice that you can do for 4 of them. Something that will make them feel special and wanted on a day where for many it can be important. Whoever you think you might have the best long-term chances with. Take her out. Nice dinner, thoughtful gift, etc. Explain why you are out with her and your "bet hedging" idea. Any long-term serious relationship and they will have to know, understand and love you...including your logical (perhaps to an extreme) thought process regarding finding a mate. If number 5 does not completely flip out you might have a winner. If she does flip out...well, you've got 4 more. It's advice like this that kills men every year! You sick sick sick boy!Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
