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I thought you loved your condo.... if you hate it move. Just up and leave. I know plenty of people have done it & are very happy. Sounds like you need a major change in life. Just do it B|



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I need to come to terms with loosing huge amount of $$$$$$ and not pass out.
If I'm lucky it would be a $40k loss and if that is only if the bank will let me sell. I will have to bring $40k to the table at closing.

I like a moron was trying to figure out how to walk away without having to dip into my 401k. You know it's one thing to look back and feel that maybe the past 7 years of my life were totally worthless waste of time it's another to ensure that the next 7 or so years will be no better due to financial losses.

And I can't rent the thing out without losing a solid $1500 per month and I can't get a room mater for the place is not set up for it.

It's ok. My "down" comes from having no viable options.

Funny note, my accountant is Jamaican so this bit of bad news of having to put aside funds to cover a projected $3k shortfall in taxes was humorous due to his accent.
(Jamaican accent) "Shah, taxes were good last year, lots of nice deductions with the condo. But now that you are single I ran the numbers and you will be needing to bring $3k to the table.....call me! I can read your fortune...Ms. Cleo told me how!"
Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay.

The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

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It's ok. My "down" comes from having no viable options.



Yeah you do. If you're truly stuck where you are, get the fuck over it and learn to make the best of where you are. So you have to plan more/drive more to find things that you like to do. I don't know exactly where you are but you can't be THAT far from the stuff/people that you find interesting because you live in New Jersey, not the middle of North Dakota. Jayzus you act like you're the only person in the world who isn't surrounded by 24x7 excitement within walking distance and has to actually drive a few miles to do something fun.
"There is only one basic human right, the right to do as you damn well please. And with it comes the only basic human duty, the duty to take the consequences." -P.J. O'Rourke

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There are always options. Sounds like you need some good vibes. Even if you take a financial hit, you might end up way happier.


These good vibes you talk about....will you be hitting on me or will I be hitting on you?

The place is far enough away from where most single people work and live that just getting up and going out is not an option. Great palce if you are married or married with one kid. Quiet, good schools, nice people, walking distance to a grocers and Mc. Donalds. It's sexy hot! I you are not me.

It's cool, what can I do. I have to come to terms with it and stop trying to find a way out which does not invovle me selling blood for money.

But that increase in taxes...WOW...really?
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The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

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These good vibes you talk about....will you be hitting on me or will I be hitting on you?



for the best good vibes go to the Good Vibes boogie @ Skydive the Farm. ;) We'll see who hits on who there.

:)I hope to go to my frist boogie this yeah when I have a few weeks off from school.
:)Ok we will see.
Let's see how much $$$ I have on me.
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Suck it up Eeyore.



That is sweet. Nice job if you made that for this.

Now he has to make one for the taxes as well!
;)
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The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

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