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Hotness delusion syndrome

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When I first became single again I met a nice girl and we dated for three or so months who was my age. She was also divorced but had been dating for a few years and she was indicating how few normal well put together single guys around.
I never thought of myself as normal but who was I to argue.

But let's be honest. Your values to the opposite sex is greatly dependent on where you live and over all aggrigate supply. Thus if you are a single 40 year old guy at a dz or say in engineering.....so what. You are a dime a dozen.

If you are in or near a mid to large size city than odds are things are better.

Thus why I am going nuts trying to escape my profession as well as leaving my condo.
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Thus why I am going nuts trying to escape my profession as well as leaving my condo.


Why do you feel the need to send us nuts along with you:S
You're a self fulfilling prophecy you whine and moan that your life is a raw deal, and in the process perpetuate it by being solely focused on the negativity of it.
You are your own worst enemy, the sooner you pull you head out of your arse the better we'll all be
You are not now, nor will you ever be, good enough to not die in this sport (Sparky)
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Please read the first part of the post.
It's not so much about age but also about location location location.

But yes I agree. I need to come to terms with the facts on the ground as they pertain to me.
Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay.

The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

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But yes I agree. I need to come to terms with the facts on the ground as they pertain to me.




But at least you're not on life support,so it must be a good day!!


Bry
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Please read the first part of the post.
It's not so much about age but also about location location location.

But yes I agree. I need to come to terms with the facts on the ground as they pertain to me.


No it's not, that was my point, you are such a negative guy, it's more about ATTITUDE, yours sucks.

granted there are those women who are only interested in money, but they are not the majority by a long shot.
you, dude, are a joy drain, so money might be the only thing you will have going for you. if you are ANYTHING, like this in person
You are not now, nor will you ever be, good enough to not die in this sport (Sparky)
My Life ROCKS!
How's yours doing?

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Any day healthy and walking is a good day.

So dumb question the article does not answer. What gives. Are dudes dying in vast numbers to account for this difference between guys and gals in their 40s?
Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay.

The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

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I didn't read the article...just had to make a remark on your thinkingB|

BTW(Just giving you some shit for the sake of giving you some shit;))




Bry

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Thus why I am going nuts trying to escape my profession as well as leaving my condo.



Seriously...

Now it's because of your job, location and housing?

Maybe (and here's a hypothetical situation for you) it's YOU!
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Why is it if I post on a thread it becomes about me? Read what I posted regarding where one resides and scarcity.

Yeesh
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Why is it if I post on a thread it becomes about me?



We're all out against you, because of your job, your age, your condo, your area of the city and well... just because of YOU. :P
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Why is it if I post on a thread it becomes about me?



We're all out against you, because of your job, your age, your condo, your area of the city and well... just because of YOU. :P



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Why is it if I post on a thread it becomes about me?



We're all out against you, because of your job, your age, your condo, your area of the city and well... just because of YOU. :P

Brother if you want it it's yours.
Gorgeous location if you are married or retired. But I keep the cats.

Can we talk about this article now?
Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay.

The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

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Why is it if I post on a thread it becomes about me? Read what I posted regarding where one resides and scarcity.

Yeesh


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Thus why I am going nuts trying to escape my profession as well as leaving my condo.



Because you pepper every post with your negative shite about your woeful exsistance
You are not now, nor will you ever be, good enough to not die in this sport (Sparky)
My Life ROCKS!
How's yours doing?

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Oy...it was a point to further reinforce my argument.
Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay.

The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

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Well, back to the original post . . .

I think men always over-estimate how good looking we are. I know I sure as hell do. That's one symptom of having the confidence to meet that woman you want to meet. :P

That article explains a few things to me about a couple of average divorced guys I work with who are in their forties. They claim to be meeting women all the time (could be total BS) and I don't think either are anything special, except for maybe the Harleys and the mid life crises. ;):D

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Well, back to the original post . . .

I think men always over-estimate how good looking we are. I know I sure as hell do. That's one symptom of having the confidence to meet that woman you want to meet. :P

That article explains a few things to me about a couple of average divorced guys I work with who are in their forties. They claim to be meeting women all the time (could be total BS) and I don't think either are anything special, except for maybe the Harleys and the mid life crises. ;):D


there's also the theory that most men don’t actually care that much about personal self appearance, so it's easier to project confidence when you dont really give a toss
You are not now, nor will you ever be, good enough to not die in this sport (Sparky)
My Life ROCKS!
How's yours doing?

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That article explains a few things to me about a couple of average divorced guys I work with who are in their forties. They claim to be meeting women all the time (could be total BS



While I'm in my 60s and not my 40s, I doubt it is BS. Certainly in my age range there are a lot of single women looking for men, and a lot of them are very attractive (and wealthy too).
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>Why is it if I post on a thread it becomes about me?

"When I first became single again . . ."
"I never thought of myself as normal . . ."
"Thus why I am going nuts . . ."

>Read what I posted regarding where one resides and scarcity.

New Jersey: 93 females for every 100 males per US census.

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