JohnnyMarko 1 #27 June 8, 2011 Quote >I'm told that women like confident guys and nervousness is a severe >turn-off. Did that help? I take it you haven't been following his posts much. Another mod reads my posts no General for me for 3 days Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
theonlyski 8 #28 June 8, 2011 Quote Daytime dates are great. Take her where you are most comfortable....in the airplane. "It's true, skydiving is not better than sex....but sex is always better after skydiving".......Daytime dates lead to daytime sex. skydiving is also better AFTER sexor so I heard"I may be a dirty pirate hooker...but I'm not about to go stand on the corner." iluvtofly DPH -7, TDS 578, Muff 5153, SCR 14890 I'm an asshole, and I approve this message Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
futuredivot 0 #29 June 8, 2011 Since it is a second date-you've already determined that ya'll at least kinda enjoy spending time together so nothing to nerve out about. Worst case, you're gonna hang with someone you have a good time with. Just mellow. Expect a goodnight handshake, but carry a condom You are only as strong as the prey you devour Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Squeak 17 #30 June 8, 2011 johnny since you are soliciting advice, let us know how it went You are not now, nor will you ever be, good enough to not die in this sport (Sparky) My Life ROCKS! How's yours doing? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
theonlyski 8 #31 June 8, 2011 Quote Expect a goodnight handshake, but carry a condom Don't let the other person NOTICE the condom though. (atleast until you plan on using it) Or so I hear..."I may be a dirty pirate hooker...but I'm not about to go stand on the corner." iluvtofly DPH -7, TDS 578, Muff 5153, SCR 14890 I'm an asshole, and I approve this message Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
popsjumper 2 #32 June 8, 2011 What is this "sex" you guys keep talking about? It sounds familiar but....My reality and yours are quite different. I think we're all Bozos on this bus. Falcon5232, SCS8170, SCSA353, POPS9398, DS239 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ryoder 1,590 #33 June 8, 2011 Quote What is this "sex" you guys keep talking about? It sounds familiar but.... You know, it's like what you do alone in the evening, while looking at the computer, but with other people involved."There are only three things of value: younger women, faster airplanes, and bigger crocodiles" - Arthur Jones. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
npgraphicdesign 3 #34 June 8, 2011 You know, EVERYONE gets nervous on dates regardless of what gender you're dating. It's natural. And that nervousness increases considerably if you like that person. Look at it this way: they're going out on a second date with you, so they obviously enjoy your company, and he's probably nervous too. So you can relax about not having to make that great first impression so you can get to that second date: that part is done. Relax, enjoy each others company, and don't worry about the 'ifs'...instead enjoy the 'now.' Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nigel99 574 #35 June 8, 2011 Quote Quote What is this "sex" you guys keep talking about? It sounds familiar but.... You know, it's like what you do alone in the evening, while looking at the computer, but with other people involved. Knowing where Andy's computer is - if he does it while looking at the computer other people are likely to be involvedExperienced jumper - someone who has made mistakes more often than I have and lived. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
theonlyski 8 #36 June 8, 2011 Quote Knowing where Andy's computer is - if he does it while looking at the computer other people are likely to be involved Probably should pick a couple different faces for your comment about him and doing that!"I may be a dirty pirate hooker...but I'm not about to go stand on the corner." iluvtofly DPH -7, TDS 578, Muff 5153, SCR 14890 I'm an asshole, and I approve this message Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
piisfish 140 #37 June 8, 2011 Quote johnny since you are soliciting advice, let us know how it went no video, didn't happen scissors beat paper, paper beat rock, rock beat wingsuit - KarlM Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nigel99 574 #38 June 8, 2011 Quote Quote Knowing where Andy's computer is - if he does it while looking at the computer other people are likely to be involved Probably should pick a couple different faces for your comment about him and doing that! Who knows it is the farm after all. Not long ago he did post something about the dog...Experienced jumper - someone who has made mistakes more often than I have and lived. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wmw999 2,551 #39 June 8, 2011 Remember that nobody can see your doubts and worries from the outside. It's even OK to share some of them -- it shows the other person that you want it to go well, which makes them more comfortable. Bathroom clean, LR clean, kitchen clean, food something you're comfortable making (and that won't keep you in the kitchen cooking the whole time, unless he's going to help you -- joint activities are good). Wendy P.There is nothing more dangerous than breaking a basic safety rule and getting away with it. It removes fear of the consequences and builds false confidence. (tbrown) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
monkycndo 0 #40 June 8, 2011 Quote You're on home tiurf then dude, make sure everything is set up early, have a calming drink, set the mood and chilax, and be yourself. I think that last part is why he is so nervous.50 donations so far. Give it a try. You know you want to spank it Jump an Infinity Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
airtwardo 7 #41 June 8, 2011 Quote Gaaaaah! Yes, I'm resorting to my lovely dz.comers for advice...Got a 2nd date tomorrow night, really nervous...how do you calm your nerves for a date? Short of getting tipsy before Roofies for him, meth for you... chocolate syrup, viking helmet, handcuffs, bowling shoes, a bull whip and some Village People mood music~ lemme know how it works out! ~ If you choke a Smurf, what color does it turn? ~ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
missbrz 0 #42 June 8, 2011 If you haven't already, visualize you two naked together & having sex. Part of what usually makes people nervous is that part & worrying about how that first kiss/touch/view will go. So if (in your head) you've already gotten past that part, it'll wont be a big deal when that part comes around. It works every time for me. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ryoder 1,590 #43 June 8, 2011 Quote Roofies for him, meth for you... chocolate syrup, viking helmet, handcuffs, bowling shoes, a bull whip and some Village People mood music~ lemme know how it works out! I think I saw that episode of "Blue Collar TV". The skit was called "Hick Eye for the Queer Guy"."There are only three things of value: younger women, faster airplanes, and bigger crocodiles" - Arthur Jones. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
warpedskydiver 0 #44 June 8, 2011 Johnny might want to spend a bit of cash and get a new trunk and ball gag. The last one might still have that "dead guy" smell Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
theonlyski 8 #45 June 8, 2011 Quote Quote Gaaaaah! Yes, I'm resorting to my lovely dz.comers for advice...Got a 2nd date tomorrow night, really nervous...how do you calm your nerves for a date? Short of getting tipsy before Roofies for him, meth for you... chocolate syrup, viking helmet, handcuffs, bowling shoes, a bull whip and some Village People mood music~ lemme know how it works out! DUDE! You told me that was OUR thing! Quote If you haven't already, visualize you two naked together & having sex. Part of what usually makes people nervous is that part & worrying about how that first kiss/touch/view will go. So if (in your head) you've already gotten past that part, it'll wont be a big deal when that part comes around. It works every time for me. Either that or he will be horny the entire time because he's already imagined how the sex will be. No point in trying to visualize the sex, you might set your expectations too high and be let down. Also gotta leave some fun for the imagination."I may be a dirty pirate hooker...but I'm not about to go stand on the corner." iluvtofly DPH -7, TDS 578, Muff 5153, SCR 14890 I'm an asshole, and I approve this message Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
airtwardo 7 #46 June 8, 2011 ...might still have that "dead guy" smell "Not that there's anything wrong with that!" ~ If you choke a Smurf, what color does it turn? ~ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
pyrotech 0 #47 June 8, 2011 Are you kidding?! The second date is CRUCIAL! If you blow this one, not only will you never see this guy again, but you may possibly never date again either. He'll go back and tell his friends how weird you are, they'll tell their friends, and the next day you'll end up having everyone stare at you and laugh at you behind your back. If you're too nervous before the date, you'll end up spilling a drink on him or something, and he may hit you. Nah, just kidding. Sleep with him before the date. Sex is a great ice breaker. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
piisfish 140 #48 June 8, 2011 Quote The second date is CRUCIAL! If you blow this one,.. depend on how good is the job scissors beat paper, paper beat rock, rock beat wingsuit - KarlM Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
theonlyski 8 #49 June 8, 2011 Quote Nah, just kidding. Sleep with him before the date. Sex is a great ice breaker. "I may be a dirty pirate hooker...but I'm not about to go stand on the corner." iluvtofly DPH -7, TDS 578, Muff 5153, SCR 14890 I'm an asshole, and I approve this message Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Southern_Man 0 #50 June 8, 2011 Quote Either that or he will be horny the entire time because he's already imagined how the sex will be. Always get a little "release" sometime before the date, helps you relax."What if there were no hypothetical questions?" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
