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I have not had any real flak, but my wife has had some from females who've had kids. It's like they're pissed off, "If they had to have kids so should everyone" kind of thing.

Interestingly enough, same here. Both my wife and I, when we mention that we don't have 'em and don't want 'em, often have to deal with incredulous looks and stares. As if to say "what do you MEAN you don't want kids?" For me it's a 'have to have kids' thing like you say and more of a "I couldn't imagine not having MY kids, so I can't imagine you not having any either" kind of thing. Being parents seems to be such a cultural standard that when we say "no" people think there's something wrong with us, I guess?

Elvisio "long day of work ahead of me" Rodriguez

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I had a thread about not wanting kids and dating a few months back.....boy did i get some serious attacks on me. That was not fun at all! And I'm actually glad it's long gone.

Yet the long and short of it were this; when I was married neither my wife nor I wished to have kids and we received many lectures about how important it was to have kids as well as people just giving us the stink eye for being at peace with our decision.

Now that I'm single and dating I've noticed many girls say they don't want to have kids...however they are under amazing peer pressure to reproduce. Kids appear to be the required token needed to gain entry into some odd "club" where there are play dates and other things which I personally don't understand. Now I can care less what people think of me but attractive well educated girls all seem to have this deep desire to fit in and when you are in your late 20's or early 30's kids are a major part of fitting in. Thus getting snipped in a way may limit your ability to be in a long term stable relationship with one of these attractive well educated girls.

YES please don't get me wrong there are many women out there who do not wish to have kids, but let's be honest with ourselves that is a very small number of women. Shame there isn't a dating sight just for people who do not wish to have kids.

Now here is an interesting question? OK so you get the love canal blocked...where do all your swimmers go when you pop? I mean having the little bastards all lined up can't be good? So what you get perpetual blue balls......kind of like getting married?

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I sat on the couch the rest of the day and was in the sac with my girl the next evening. NBD. )

Seriously? You didn't go back for the sperm check before playing, Maestro?

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While girls don't want any birth control accidents either, I find some get somewhat distrustful as soon as you say you REALLY don't want kids (and not just "not now"). There's the idea that you're a little defective or gay or something if that's your attitude. Is that worse if you are snipped or do they at least see it as a done deal so there's nothing to argue about?

I think it depends on the girl on how she will see a guy who doesn't want kids. I was even more attracted to my boyfriend when he said he didn't want kids, because I, also, have never wanted kids. If a girl really wants them, she will likely feel turned off by said guy.

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While girls don't want any birth control accidents either, I find some get somewhat distrustful as soon as you say you REALLY don't want kids (and not just "not now"). There's the idea that you're a little defective or gay or something if that's your attitude. Is that worse if you are snipped or do they at least see it as a done deal so there's nothing to argue about?

I think it depends on the girl on how she will see a guy who doesn't want kids. I was even more attracted to my boyfriend when he said he didn't want kids, because I, also, have never wanted kids. If a girl really wants them, she will likely feel turned off by said guy.

Again, the number of girls who REALLY do not wish to have kids is rather low! And it's really odd but the good looking skinny ones who know how to dress and carry themselves and make you just want dry hump the table.....well they want access to this stupid "momy" club. And well to have that you need one of these freaking rug rats!

It's almost, for these girls who make over $90k, that kids are the must have thing! Like they were shoes or something. Hell if you ask me...I think from the looks of it.....kids are a womans excuse to stop alot of things that her husband or boyfriend likes.
Be it her wearing kinky undies, to going to the gym and eating well to.....well sex!

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[BillyVance 34]

I had mine done May of last year. Ask porpoishead for the pic I posted of myself cringing in the exam room with the bed and stirrups in the background. It's the funniest thing he's ever seen.

I had it done on Friday and was back to normal the following Monday or Tuesday. Just make sure you have your wigglers checked monthly for three months so you don't get some poor girl pregnant from leftovers in your system!

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Again, the number of girls who REALLY do not wish to have kids is rather low!

Actually, it seems there are more women than ever NOT wanting kids. Sure, the majority of women want and will have kids, but there are also a lot more women in recent times that are choosing not to have kids, and these women are tending to be highly educated and make good money. I just graduated with my masters and there are several women in my graduate school cohort I know personally that aren't having kids.

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Hell if you ask me...I think from the looks of it.....kids are a womans excuse to stop alot of things that her husband or boyfriend likes.

Ya, if he married a complete bitch and she wants to spite her guy, but this is generally not true. Maybe you just need to start hanging out with nicer, more mature couples to see that that is not true. Wanting kids is an inherent, biological longing, that a girl doesn't really have control over.

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Interesting to hear that some guys are getting the vasectomy before having any kids. Have those guys noticed much stigma about that?

Hi PC

The only negative response i remember was from a dude that my wife worked for. Something about religion, continueing your blood line, etc.

My take on it was some people think as long as their bloodline continues they will never be forgotten or they will live forever.

The reaction from women can be different. Like we're lieing about having one. There is a knot on ea side lady feel that.

Someone asked Where do the swimmers go? Every time you sneeze that not snot coming out your nose anymore

Different strokes for different folks

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[TheBachelor 5]

I never wanted kids, and after my divorce was in process, I decided to have it done. The doctor didn't hassle me about having no kids and getting it done. They just tell you to make sure it's what you want because reversal is difficult.

Pretty much the same experience as others. It's a strange feeling when they pull the Vas deferens out to cut / cauterize it. It wasn't a pleasant feeling, but it's over pretty quickly.

Had an ice pack handy for the weekend. The pain wasn't much, and the ice did help.

I'm definitely glad I did it.

There are battered women? I've been eating 'em plain all of these years...

[Krip 2]

Hi Bachelor

"" It's a strange feeling when they pull the Vas deferens out to cut / cauterize it.""


Cauterize!!!

Now you did it

I don't remember that step when I got cliped. I think they just used a needle and thread.

R.I.P.

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I sat on the couch the rest of the day and was in the sac with my girl the next evening. NBD. )

Seriously? You didn't go back for the sperm check before playing, Maestro?

I did not. Besides, it takes a month for the swimmers to die off.

And, I still have not had a check. Still with the same girl 6 years later and she still has not caught that seriously terrible preggers disease. My thoughts on the subject of "the check up" should not be taken as advice, BUT I have a friend who is a urologist, and he tells me that the plumbing is like, well, plumbing. If the water line is not hooked up, you are not going to get any water.

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I sat on the couch the rest of the day and was in the sac with my girl the next evening. NBD. )

Seriously? You didn't go back for the sperm check before playing, Maestro?

I did not. Besides, it takes a month for the swimmers to die off.

And, I still have not had a check. Still with the same girl 6 years later and she still has not caught that seriously terrible preggers disease. My thoughts on the subject of "the check up" should not be taken as advice, BUT I have a friend who is a urologist, and he tells me that the plumbing is like, well, plumbing. If the water line is not hooked up, you are not going to get any water.

Yea well let me tell you this, you are lucky. A friend of mine got snipped, ignored the follow up and a few months later his wife was preg with TWINS!!! They already had 4 kids, they did not want anymore. Sometimes shit doesn't work out right

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I sat on the couch the rest of the day and was in the sac with my girl the next evening. NBD. )

Seriously? You didn't go back for the sperm check before playing, Maestro?

I did not. Besides, it takes a month for the swimmers to die off.

And, I still have not had a check. Still with the same girl 6 years later and she still has not caught that seriously terrible preggers disease. My thoughts on the subject of "the check up" should not be taken as advice, BUT I have a friend who is a urologist, and he tells me that the plumbing is like, well, plumbing. If the water line is not hooked up, you are not going to get any water.

Yea well let me tell you this, you are lucky. A friend of mine got snipped, ignored the follow up and a few months later his wife was preg with TWINS!!! They already had 4 kids, they did not want anymore. Sometimes shit doesn't work out right

I have heard a few stories like that. And my friends in the medical field, after telling them about hearing stories like that, don't really believe them. My urologist told me to come back in a month, and then at six months for a check up, but that those were a "required" part of the procedure. He also told me none of his had ever "failed".

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I sat on the couch the rest of the day and was in the sac with my girl the next evening. NBD. )

Seriously? You didn't go back for the sperm check before playing, Maestro?

I did not. Besides, it takes a month for the swimmers to die off.

And, I still have not had a check. Still with the same girl 6 years later and she still has not caught that seriously terrible preggers disease. My thoughts on the subject of "the check up" should not be taken as advice, BUT I have a friend who is a urologist, and he tells me that the plumbing is like, well, plumbing. If the water line is not hooked up, you are not going to get any water.

Yea well let me tell you this, you are lucky. A friend of mine got snipped, ignored the follow up and a few months later his wife was preg with TWINS!!! They already had 4 kids, they did not want anymore. Sometimes shit doesn't work out right

I have heard a few stories like that. And my friends in the medical field, after telling them about hearing stories like that, don't really believe them. My urologist told me to come back in a month, and then at six months for a check up, but that those were a "required" part of the procedure. He also told me none of his had ever "failed".

That's just the wifey getting caught playing the field and blaming it on stragglers

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BUT I have a friend who is a urologist, and he tells me that the plumbing is like, well, plumbing. If the water line is not hooked up, you are not going to get any water.

I hope he is not your urologist.

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BUT I have a friend who is a urologist, and he tells me that the plumbing is like, well, plumbing. If the water line is not hooked up, you are not going to get any water.

I hope he is not your urologist.

No, he is not my urologist. But my actual urologist that cut on me was fairly confident that after cut, burn, and tying the vas that it would not spontaneously untie, de-cauterize, and re-connect.

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No, he is not my urologist. But my actual urologist that cut on me was fairly confident that after cut, burn, and tying the vas that it would not spontaneously untie, de-cauterize, and re-connect.

Fairly confident is the right term with vasectomies at 99.8% effective. There are cases of them growing back together. There are also cases of sperm finding another route.

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I asked him if he could make mine "especially irreversible". He did not find it funny.

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It was a non event. The worst part about it was the razor stubble.

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It was a non event. The worst part about it was the razor stubble.

Yeah, that was the most irritating part of the whole thing. Thats where boxer briefs help mitigate the skin-on-skin contact.

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A friend of mine got snipped, ignored the follow up and a few months later his wife was preg with TWINS!!!

And have you ever thought who might just be the father?



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Snipped in '78 after two kids, no problems since

[eeneR 3]

The kids looked a lot like the father. I however believed he assumed he was shooting blanks sooner the he should have At the end of the day it is NMFP. I was just adding to the fact he had better make god damn sure he is shooting blanks before he starts running poking everything in site. It is fucking stupid not to go back and get shit verified.

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The kids looked a lot like the father. I however believed he assumed he was shooting blanks sooner the he should have At the end of the day it is NMFP. I was just adding to the fact he had better make god damn sure he is shooting blanks before he starts running poking everything in site. It is fucking stupid not to go back and get shit verified.

Probably a good plan. I still have not, but I am going to go ahead and assume that I am good after 5 years of unprotected ninja coitus.

Edit:(same partner, protection worn post cut for the first month and every time there was more than two players)

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