billvon 3,114 #76 September 9, 2011 >OK I never said she would find "Mr. Right" I'm saying she will find "Mr. Right NOW!" True - but so can you! Lower your standards enough and there's a lot of people out there for you. Whether that's a good idea or not, of course, is up to you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shah269 0 #77 September 9, 2011 Quote>OK I never said she would find "Mr. Right" I'm saying she will find "Mr. Right NOW!" True - but so can you! Lower your standards enough and there's a lot of people out there for you. Whether that's a good idea or not, of course, is up to you. Ah hell no! I'm not lowering my standards! What are you kidding me! Why would i do something as dumb as that! Shoot! Only a dumb ass lowers their standards! But hell if the numbers are in your favor the odds stand that you don't have to lower your standards and eventually things turn up the way you want them. That pesky perception thing. Remember the 52 hot Playboy Bunnies and Andi Dick? Given those numbers odds are one of the girls will receive Mr. Dick to be a catch. Aint nothing and I MEAN NOTHING better than being in desired quantity in a sellers market. Thus, we have to ask....were those two ladies really 10/10's or were they at best a 6? Or worse..a female version of Andy Dick?Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
oldwomanc6 60 #78 September 10, 2011 Shah, Your anger is so much, that no one can beat through it. I think a lot of us have sympathy for you , but when you seem to radiate the same idea that it is everyone but you, I wonder. We all try to keep it light, but HOLY CRAP! We have all gone through break-ups of what we felt was the love of our life. We learn (hopefully) what went wrong. And then refine what we want. What do you want? What do you want others to perceive about you? I can say right now, you may be sucking a lot of posts in your direction, but not many girls on the dz (and they are few and far between) are going to knocking on your door. Honey attracts more than vinegar. My rant for today!lisa WSCR 594 FB 1023 CBDB 9 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
billvon 3,114 #79 September 10, 2011 >Ah hell no! I'm not lowering my standards! That's fine. That means you won't find "mrs. right now" even though you could if you chose to do so. >But hell if the numbers are in your favor the odds stand that you don't have to lower >your standards and eventually things turn up the way you want them. I think that you will find that if you set your standards independently of how many women there are out there (or what the odds are, or where you live etc) you'll be happier in the long run. And that a difference of 1.5% is a vanishingly small part of the equation. >That pesky perception thing. Remember the 52 hot Playboy Bunnies and Andi Dick? Yep. And remember that cow that thought the grass was greener on the other side of the fence? Turns out it wasn't, even though it looked a lot better than the grass on her side. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shah269 0 #80 September 10, 2011 QuoteShah, Your anger is so much, that no one can beat through it. I think a lot of us have sympathy for you , but when you seem to radiate the same idea that it is everyone but you, I wonder. We all try to keep it light, but HOLY CRAP! We have all gone through break-ups of what we felt was the love of our life. We learn (hopefully) what went wrong. And then refine what we want. What do you want? What do you want others to perceive about you? I can say right now, you may be sucking a lot of posts in your direction, but not many girls on the dz (and they are few and far between) are going to knocking on your door. Honey attracts more than vinegar. My rant for today! Yeah working on it. How can I put it......"the magic for me is gone". I just see systems and numbers and equations of human interactions. For me at the moment the "human element" is removed, dating for lack of a better word is nothing more than a card game. Maybe that will change one day? Maybe not. But for now, I see interactions as basic economics and perception.Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BrokenR1 0 #81 September 10, 2011 Quote NYC is a great place for a single straight guy. Lots of single girls competing for very few available guys. As such these guys....."appear" to be more than they probably are. Much like our OP's view of the DZ and the two 10's Sweet, I need to find a job up there and get out of Florida. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Rap is to music what etch-a-sketch is to art. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shah269 0 #82 September 10, 2011 I gave this a bit of though...instead of paying attention in class.... And I have to apologize Just because I am jaded and view basic human interactions as a system doesn't mean that it is this way and I should not have been as argumentative. Yes it started off as a fun debate but in the end....it just got too heated and too much negative energy was expended. That said....yo OP take some pics of these two girls will you! Can i get an A-men! Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Squeak 17 #83 September 11, 2011 Quotetoo much negative energy was expended. you typed, ergo, it's expectedYou are not now, nor will you ever be, good enough to not die in this sport (Sparky) My Life ROCKS! How's yours doing? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BrokenR1 0 #84 September 11, 2011 Quote I gave this a bit of though...instead of paying attention in class.... And I have to apologize Yes yes, you've seen the light and changed your ways. Now can we get back to the single ladies with low standards up in your area? I need some pics, bio's, and stats. Thanks! - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Rap is to music what etch-a-sketch is to art. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
airtwardo 7 #85 September 11, 2011 "the magic for me is gone". Quote That's been obvious for quite some time there buddy...lose the chip and the dark cloud will disappear! The bad thing about carrying too much baggage around is that it puts real limits on how far you can go. Lighten the load and you'll soon find yourself going down paths you never imagined, to places to you thought you might never go...like 'size 8 land' ~ If you choke a Smurf, what color does it turn? ~ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shah269 0 #86 September 12, 2011 Quote Quote NYC is a great place for a single straight guy. Lots of single girls competing for very few available guys. As such these guys....."appear" to be more than they probably are. Much like our OP's view of the DZ and the two 10's Sweet, I need to find a job up there and get out of Florida. http://www.yelp.com/biz/frying-pan-new-york Mid week, show up around.....oh....6ish? And flex on the finance boys and give the "hipsters" the stink eye. The ladies will love you for it!Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fossg 0 #87 September 12, 2011 This should help ya out. This always worked for me. Stand in front of the ladies room at the dz and ask for dates. Sure fire way to meet all the gals Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
airtwardo 7 #88 September 12, 2011 Quote This should help ya out. This always worked for me. Stand in front of the ladies room at the dz and ask for dates. Sure fire way to meet all the gals Works in a bar too! ~ If you choke a Smurf, what color does it turn? ~ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fossg 0 #89 September 12, 2011 As long as the boyfriend isn't bigger than you.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fossg 0 #90 September 13, 2011 "Yep. And remember that cow that thought the grass was greener on the other side of the fence? Turns out it wasn't, even though it looked a lot better than the grass on her side. " Reading that reminded me of when I worked on a dairy farm and I peed on an electric fence... by accident. True story Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mickochet 0 #91 September 15, 2011 Sounds kinda like a PA. Must be OK because it's a GREENIE.If you never fall down you aren't trying hard enough. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
missbrz 0 #92 September 15, 2011 Quote Sounds kinda like a PA. Must be OK because it's a GREENIE. She never said he was stupid or a complete bore She just gave him some good advice Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skymama 37 #93 September 15, 2011 QuoteSounds kinda like a PA. Must be OK because it's a GREENIE. Why is it a PA to offer advice? I don't tend to sugarcoat things; sorry if that offends you.She is Da Man, and you better not mess with Da Man, because she will lay some keepdown on you faster than, well, really fast. ~Billvon Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
oldwomanc6 60 #94 September 15, 2011 QuoteQuoteSounds kinda like a PA. Must be OK because it's a GREENIE. Why is it a PA to offer advice? I don't tend to sugarcoat things; sorry if that offends you. It was sound advice.lisa WSCR 594 FB 1023 CBDB 9 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
popsjumper 2 #95 September 16, 2011 QuoteQuoteQuoteSounds kinda like a PA. Must be OK because it's a GREENIE. Why is it a PA to offer advice? I don't tend to sugarcoat things; sorry if that offends you. It was sound advice. What sound does advice make if nobody is listening?My reality and yours are quite different. I think we're all Bozos on this bus. Falcon5232, SCS8170, SCSA353, POPS9398, DS239 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Squeak 17 #96 September 16, 2011 Quote Quote Quote Quote Sounds kinda like a PA. Must be OK because it's a GREENIE. Why is it a PA to offer advice? I don't tend to sugarcoat things; sorry if that offends you. It was sound advice. What sound does advice make if nobody is listening? If a man speaks in a forest and no woman hears him is he still wrong?You are not now, nor will you ever be, good enough to not die in this sport (Sparky) My Life ROCKS! How's yours doing? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
normiss 893 #97 September 16, 2011 Lemme get this straight. You're the guy having issues being severely upside down in your home, and having trouble getting dates. You're now comparing dating to economics??? The chick that puts out on the first date not working out? I thought you two hit it off. Dude relax. Be you. Stop pushing it. You'll find you one. I always found Jersey girls quite fun when I was in Jersey. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
oldwomanc6 60 #98 September 16, 2011 Why is it a PA to offer advice? I don't tend to sugarcoat things; sorry if that offends you. It was sound advice. What sound does advice make if nobody is listening? If a man speaks in a forest and no woman hears him is he still wrong?Well, if the wood that is the tree, gets cut down..... Sound, What Sound? lisa WSCR 594 FB 1023 CBDB 9 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shah269 0 #99 September 16, 2011 Why do some think I'm not getting dates? See now that is a personal attack.....if nothing just down right insulting. For the record.....I do quite well thank you. Apparently I'm a hit with the ladies. So.....are there photos of these two legit 10/10's?Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BillyVance 35 #100 September 16, 2011 Quote Quote Quote Quote Sounds kinda like a PA. Must be OK because it's a GREENIE. Why is it a PA to offer advice? I don't tend to sugarcoat things; sorry if that offends you. It was sound advice. What sound does advice make if nobody is listening? Well it sure as hell doesn't work on ME. "Mediocre people don't like high achievers, and high achievers don't like mediocre people." - SIX TIME National Champion coach Nick Saban Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
