hcsvader 1 #1 September 21, 2011 I've had more than my fair share of clingers. You know the girls that just won't leave you alone after hooking up with them or dating them. I am sure guys can be just as bad. Why the fuck do people continue to persue someone after months of being ignored? My most recent clinger was a one night stand I had about 2 months ago in a town 2 hours away. I never gave her my phone number but she managed to track me down on FB and has been sending me a few messages which I have ignored. I got this one a couple days ago... Quotei hate to say this but i havent been with another man since you hun i enjoyed the night we spent together i carnt get you out of my head i hope this dont turn you off me but fuck you are the best person i have been with sorry hun but fuck you are totally awesome i hope we do catch up sorry for being striaight forward i do want to catch up with you thats if you want to catch up when you are ready hopefully we do How much time to people spend trying to track down people? I really doubt I told her my last name and yet she was able to find me on FB. This one really isnt that bad. I have an ex GF from nearly 7 years ago that is still trying to get onto me. She is married with kids. I have been telling her not to contact me for years.I haven't replied to any of her messages in about 4 years, Have her blocked on every email account, FB and whatever else and she still finds ways of contacting me and sending me the same bullshit messages.Have you seen my pants? it"s a rough life, Livin' the dream >:) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
oldwomanc6 60 #2 September 21, 2011 Malaysia, my boy. Unless she has a lot of money, she can't find you there (physically). There was a crazy thread awhile ago, and I think the general consensus was "You can't control CRAZY". Good Luck!lisa WSCR 594 FB 1023 CBDB 9 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hcsvader 1 #3 September 21, 2011 Lol, the crazy ex GF was saying in her last email that she is coming to australia for a month and wants to get together. i was so tempted to write back to her and tell her good luck finding me. I decided many years ago that it was just best to no longer respond to her. you now what they say about arguing with idiots...Have you seen my pants? it"s a rough life, Livin' the dream >:) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skydiver30960 0 #4 September 21, 2011 Stay away from her if for no other reason than her appalling lack of punctuation. Elvisio "sure she can suck a golfball through a garden hose, but can't she use a comma or a semicolon once in a while?" Rodriguez Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JohnMitchell 16 #5 September 21, 2011 You can't help that you're so darn good lookin' . . .Tell 'em they can come over, but they have to bring beer. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
amstalder 0 #6 September 21, 2011 Quote Stay away from her if for no other reason than her appalling lack of punctuation. Elvisio "sure she can suck a golfball through a garden hose, but can't she use a comma or a semicolon once in a while?" Rodriguez +1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skymama 37 #7 September 21, 2011 QuoteWhy the fuck do people continue to persue someone after months of being ignored? Low self-esteem.She is Da Man, and you better not mess with Da Man, because she will lay some keepdown on you faster than, well, really fast. ~Billvon Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Andy9o8 2 #8 September 21, 2011 Too often, people make decisions without doing the needed research. Does she have a bank account worth cleaning out? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Heatmiser 0 #10 September 21, 2011 Quote I've had more than my fair share of clingers. You know the girls that just won't leave you alone after hooking up with them or dating them. I am sure guys can be just as bad. Why the fuck do people continue to persue someone after months of being ignored? My most recent clinger was a one night stand I had about 2 months ago in a town 2 hours away. I never gave her my phone number but she managed to track me down on FB and has been sending me a few messages which I have ignored. I got this one a couple days ago... Quote i hate to say this but i havent been with another man since you hun i enjoyed the night we spent together i carnt get you out of my head i hope this dont turn you off me but fuck you are the best person i have been with sorry hun but fuck you are totally awesome i hope we do catch up sorry for being striaight forward i do want to catch up with you thats if you want to catch up when you are ready hopefully we do How much time to people spend trying to track down people? I really doubt I told her my last name and yet she was able to find me on FB. This one really isnt that bad. I have an ex GF from nearly 7 years ago that is still trying to get onto me. She is married with kids. I have been telling her not to contact me for years.I haven't replied to any of her messages in about 4 years, Have her blocked on every email account, FB and whatever else and she still finds ways of contacting me and sending me the same bullshit messages. Well...you did put your dick in her. To a lot of people, that means something. Connection, ya know? Most women I know (I don't presume to speak for all) would say that there is no separating emotional connection and sex. Without the "Vader" disclaimer stating that "this sexual encounter in no way obligates me to have any further contact with you", you reap what you sow. SIUCCWhat you say is reflective of your knowledge...HOW ya say it is reflective of your experience. Airtwardo Someone's going to be spanked! Hopefully, it will be me. Skymama Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
theonlyski 8 #11 September 21, 2011 Quote Quote Stay away from her if for no other reason than her appalling lack of punctuation. Elvisio "sure she can suck a golfball through a garden hose, but can't she use a comma or a semicolon once in a while?" Rodriguez +1 +2... I've removed people in my life for that. Annoys the shit out of me!"I may be a dirty pirate hooker...but I'm not about to go stand on the corner." iluvtofly DPH -7, TDS 578, Muff 5153, SCR 14890 I'm an asshole, and I approve this message Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MikeJD 0 #12 September 21, 2011 Quote i carnt get you out of my head... you are the best person i have been with... you are totally awesome You sent that yourself. Didn't you? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
popsjumper 2 #13 September 21, 2011 I'm not sure if he's bragging or complaining. My reality and yours are quite different. I think we're all Bozos on this bus. Falcon5232, SCS8170, SCSA353, POPS9398, DS239 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shah269 0 #14 September 21, 2011 pfft...easy! invite her over to your local DZ and pass her off. no brainer there!Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TriGirl 343 #15 September 21, 2011 Quote I often say it is a rough life livin' the dream. ... I think too many people have their priorities all mixed up and aren't living the lives that make them happy. Instead they are living the lives that they believe they are expected to live. This is why you get clingers. The IDEA of this is very appealing to many people who are doing what's "expected," or the "standard." Of course, they don't have to worry about the consequences of the reality (for example, they might be WAY out of their comfort zone if actually challenged to live it). The one-night stand may THINK she wants something more with you, but she really has NO idea what that really means (esp since you didn't spend enough time for her to really know you -- she just knows the cool/sexy stuff). The former GF with the kids? She's never going to leave them for you, but she may feel like she would get a recharge (so to speak) if she had what she knows would be a no-strings-attached, break-from-reality holiday to Australia. Over the course of making ever bolder statements and having to track you down, she's convinced herself that 1) she's earned it, and 2) you would be agreeable to such an arrangement. Doesn't matter that you blocked her access. You actually have to SAY, "I want nothing to do with you, so leave me alone you psycho!" (or some similar appropriate sentiment). For the one-nighter -- write something to her like, "sorry hun, but fuck you were a good, well, fuck. Sorry for being straight forward, but I don't want to catch up with you. I already got you out of my head." See the upside, and always wear your parachute! -- Christopher Titus Shut Up & Jump! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JohnMitchell 16 #16 September 21, 2011 Quote Quote i carnt get you out of my head... you are the best person i have been with... you are totally awesome You sent that yourself. Didn't you? A woman once told me of the 3 little lies women tell to men: You're the first. You're the biggest. You're the best. We've all heard that, right? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
theonlyski 8 #17 September 21, 2011 Quote Quote Quote i carnt get you out of my head... you are the best person i have been with... you are totally awesome You sent that yourself. Didn't you? A woman once told me of the 3 little lies women tell to men: You're the first. You're the biggest. You're the best. We've all heard that, right? No. "I may be a dirty pirate hooker...but I'm not about to go stand on the corner." iluvtofly DPH -7, TDS 578, Muff 5153, SCR 14890 I'm an asshole, and I approve this message Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hcsvader 1 #18 September 21, 2011 QuoteYou actually have to SAY, "I want nothing to do with you, so leave me alone you psycho!" (or some similar appropriate sentiment). It has been said many many times in many different ways. Responding to her only to seems to motivate her further.Have you seen my pants? it"s a rough life, Livin' the dream >:) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hcsvader 1 #19 September 21, 2011 Quote pfft...easy! invite her over to your local DZ and pass her off. no brainer there! Hahahaha you know, for once I can agree with you Shah... The only ex's that dont bother me are ones that are now dating other skydivers. Thanks friends for taking care of those ones for me Have you seen my pants? it"s a rough life, Livin' the dream >:) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Andy9o8 2 #20 September 21, 2011 QuoteResponding to her only to seems to motivate her further. Ding!! Focus on that; there's a lesson in it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hcsvader 1 #21 September 21, 2011 Yup, and that would be why I haven't responded to her in years.Have you seen my pants? it"s a rough life, Livin' the dream >:) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shah269 0 #22 September 21, 2011 Quote Quote pfft...easy! invite her over to your local DZ and pass her off. no brainer there! Hahahaha you know, for once I can agree with you Shah... The only ex's that dont bother me are ones that are now dating other skydivers. Thanks friends for taking care of those ones for me It's just gook Karma man! I'm sure there is a "nice guy" at your local DZ who isn't the best with the ladies....introduce east to west and let the Skygod smile! doing good is easy, doing wrong takes work, be lazy and do good!Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BMichaeli 1 #23 September 21, 2011 Quote I'm not sure if he's bragging or complaining. +1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Andy9o8 2 #24 September 21, 2011 QuoteHow much time to people spend trying to track down people? I really doubt I told her my last name and yet she was able to find me on FB. When I read this, I was curious how easy/hard that would be. In about 8 minutes, I think I figured out your full name, plus some additional personal info. I've sent the info to you via an e-mail to your Dz.com email address (since my PMs are turned off). Let me know if I'm right. (Note: you and I have never met, AFAIK, and (other than my quick research) I have no idea what your correct first or last name actually are.) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hcsvader 1 #25 September 21, 2011 Haven't recieved an email from you. Did a search myself. Yes it is pretty easy to find info. I've found a couple of old profiles on myself that I am going to delete. Wonder what you were able to find. Im not too worried about people being able to find me... Like i said, I usually just ignore it and block her when she contacts me.Have you seen my pants? it"s a rough life, Livin' the dream >:) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
