davjohns 1 #51 January 11, 2013 QuoteThat's one of the last things he said to me, we talked today. Was that he thought that my heart was bigger then what he see it is now, because if I really did love him like I said I did I would stay and work through it. That's where the I didn't love him enough, came in. Am I the only one throwing out the bullshit card? Really? He cheated on you and then blamed the breakup on you? Really? I agree that trust broken is very hard to restore. However, if the cheater is sincerely, deeply hurt by their transgression, there is a chance they can turn away from their wandering ways and be faithful thereafter. On the other hand...if they blame others, they are not taking responsibility for their actions and there can be no true remorse. This guy seems to fall into the latter category by blaming you and will cheat again. RUN. Be thankful for the great gift of truth you have received now and the more painful experience you were spared later. And RUN.I know it just wouldnt be right to kill all the stupid people that we meet.. But do you think it would be appropriate to just remove all of the warning labels and let nature take its course. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
promise5 17 #52 January 11, 2013 Quote Quote Quote Quote Quote Quote You look really cute in your picture I know, right? I would've been all over smoochin' them rosy cheeks in her last profile pic... I think you should be PM'ing her. I had to out swoop a bunch of guys to marry Vskydiver. I know I was hinting...but I'm just a flirt. My time has come and gone - my offspring sprung. I have a huge burden ahead of me and I would never invite anyone to share it with me...I have to go it alone on this one and it'll take everything I got unto the point of death. a burden shared is alot smaller then carrying it by yourself, and you don't really ask someone to help carry a burden they offer. Just a thought. Ya, well if you're up to wiping my grandmother's ass, living in a hut, saving orphans and killing sick fucking religious extremist in Nimule, then send me a PM. I couldn't resist, I know I can be a pain in the bum. HHmm lets see. wiped a bum, done that. Live in a hut, my family lives in alaska and camps in a tent, yeah a hut would be a step up. Orphans, youngest brother from Nigeria, youngest sister from Somalia,got that covered. Religious extremist, I believe in God so some might see me as extreme. Oh crud, the killing part, dang I might break a nail on that part! crapit!!!! I guess I don't have it all coveredNo matter how slowly you say oranges it never sounds like gullible. Believe me I tried. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Coreece 190 #53 January 11, 2013 QuoteQuoteThat's one of the last things he said to me, we talked today. Was that he thought that my heart was bigger then what he see it is now, because if I really did love him like I said I did I would stay and work through it. That's where the I didn't love him enough, came in. Am I the only one throwing out the bullshit card? Really? He cheated on you and then blamed the breakup on you? Really? no...others have stated it as well...even if it were true, he has no fucking right to spit that shit in her face. even if he's that desperate, she already admitted that she can't do it. His only chance is if he loves her enough to come back after time has destroyed her pain.Your secrets are the true reflection of who you really are... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
davjohns 1 #54 January 11, 2013 As a dog returns to its own vomit, so does a fool to his folly. Too many fish in the sea. Move on.I know it just wouldnt be right to kill all the stupid people that we meet.. But do you think it would be appropriate to just remove all of the warning labels and let nature take its course. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Coreece 190 #55 January 11, 2013 QuoteAs a dog returns to its own vomit, so does a fool to his folly. Too many fish in the sea. Move on. ...and she will move on - that's how time destroys. If he comes back she can make a decision then. ...and please, don't quote scripture if you're not willing to die for it.Your secrets are the true reflection of who you really are... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
davjohns 1 #56 January 11, 2013 I'm not actually try to argue with you. I am just pointing out that there are so many people in the world, it seems silly to go back to someone you've failed with and moved on from. It's like looking for something in a place you've already searched while ignoring vast expanses that you have not explored. Of course, everyone makes their own decisions. I didn't even realize that was scripture. Just a bit of wisdom that seemed appropriate. Not sure why quoting good advice offends you, but it was not my intention. I am convinced that living for something is far harder than dying for it. Dying for something is a one-time decision. Living for something takes enduring committment. Still, if you don't care for good, time tested advice unless I am willing to die offering it, I can only offer another of the observations attributed to Solomon: ...a wise man listens to advice.I know it just wouldnt be right to kill all the stupid people that we meet.. But do you think it would be appropriate to just remove all of the warning labels and let nature take its course. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Coreece 190 #57 January 11, 2013 sorry...my last comment was sincere but unfair. I'm not sure if you know it or not, but almost all of you postings I've read, in some way or another express the truth found in scripture. Your post in response to bill about the heart in the "cheating" thread was spot on. I know you tend to be agnostic ( I think) but whatever you're doing, keep doing it....don't let people like me snuff out that Spirit that guides you. I have realised that up until now I've been a false teacher....I brood of vipers. "So you must obey them and do everything they tell you. But do not do what they do, for they do not practice what they preach."Your secrets are the true reflection of who you really are... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Coreece 190 #58 January 11, 2013 QuoteI didn't even realize that was scripture. Proverbs 26:11 People use a lot of quotes that they don't realize are derived from scripture.... Once you get passed all the BS, you'll see that that you agree...you'll see that that book was right all along. It's the truth...it's the truth about how fucked up we are.Your secrets are the true reflection of who you really are... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
davjohns 1 #59 January 11, 2013 PM sent. No offense taken.I know it just wouldnt be right to kill all the stupid people that we meet.. But do you think it would be appropriate to just remove all of the warning labels and let nature take its course. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
airtwardo 7 #60 January 11, 2013 ...and under 40. Quote Damn...I was SO close too! ~ If you choke a Smurf, what color does it turn? ~ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BillyVance 35 #61 January 11, 2013 Quote ...and under 40. Quote Damn...I was SO close too! You missed by a couple of millenia. "Mediocre people don't like high achievers, and high achievers don't like mediocre people." - SIX TIME National Champion coach Nick Saban Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
airtwardo 7 #62 January 11, 2013 Quote Quote ...and under 40. Quote Damn...I was SO close too! You missed by a couple of millenia. It's ALL relative~ I'm young...for a mountain. ~ If you choke a Smurf, what color does it turn? ~ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JohnMitchell 16 #63 January 11, 2013 Quote I'm young...for a mountain. About the same height as some too. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
