Is sexual attraction human nature?

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That is are we born with the insight to be sexually attracted to another persons body/mind/whatever it is that sexually turns you on? For example you bound up in Plato’s cave; that is you know nothing about the outside world. You are freed and walk out of the cave and before you is (insert attractive person), naked, ready to go; are you turned on? Or is sexual attraction a learned experience. We live in a very sexually charged world does this aid our sexual attraction?

neilp

[waltappel 1]

Sexual attraction is an instinctive behavior triggered by BOOBIES.

Any skydiver knows that!!!

Walt

[SpeedRacer 1]

Some of it is, some of it isn't, would be my guess. Probably basic things like being gay or straight are hardwired into your brain, but the particular QUALITIES you are attracted to are probably highly influenced by your upbringing & environment.

Speed Racer
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[lisamariewillbe 1]

you said BOOBIES

Sudsy Fist: i don't think i'd ever say this
Sudsy Fist: but you're looking damn sudsydoable in this

[Ashtanga 0]

Sexual attraction isn't just human nature it is a all living thing nature. Ever noticed how dogs and monkeys get it on right away. They don't have to play games or buy dinner to get some. I wish I was a dog. But I am a . A Sky[Monkey].

[j0nes 0]

i think a better question is that if you spent your whole childhood tied up (as in your example), would you be more inclined towards bondage OR in fear of it due to your lifetime of being bound?

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Sexual attraction isn't just human nature it is a all living thing nature. Ever noticed how dogs and monkeys get it on right away. They don't have to play games or buy dinner to get some. I wish I was a dog. But I am a . A Sky[Monkey].

clicky.

walt

[lawrocket 3]

I think nighttime erections answer that question with regards to the males of the species....

My wife is hotter than your wife.

[Diversgodown 0]

T&A, T&A. I gotta say it is there, it's what we do breed) excuse me I have to go look at pictures of Naked women on the net now!!

***Glory Favors the Bold***

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Walt. That's FUNNY!

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Walt. That's FUNNY!

Well, he said dogs and monkeys!

Walt

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I think sexual attraction is taught kind of like skiing is taught. People have skied for thousands of years before us and are continually improving the efficiency as well as the pleasure derived from it.
{Now I can get a little contraversial here but we all know its fun}
Think back to Marilyn Monroe in the sixties. Everybody thought she was so hot but by today's standards she is flat out fat with good proportions. The open choice back then was not as open and therfore guys had to settle for what was available or masterbate. The same is true for women. Look at the older movies from the 40's and see just how stupid looking these guys were with their pants pulled up so high. But hey, there were women who found that attractive (or made themselves believe so as a defense mechanism). Now think of the Scottish women who like those guy's in the kilts (skirts). Again that is what the men do there and that is what the women need to find a way to like. Or back in colonial days when they ran around in panty-hose and wigs.
Still I do believe there is such a thing as true beauty / attractiveness. Such as Angelina Jolie and Sarah Michelle Geller or Heidi Klum. And for the guys I do believe that there is a better appearance such as Arnold Schwarzeneggar, Frank Zane or me.
But that might be just my point of view, who really knows.

If I could make a wish, I think I'd pass.
Can't think of anything I need
No cigarettes, no sleep, no light, no sound.
Nothing to eat, no books to read.

[Vallerina 2]

It is what you are born with. My nephew wasn't even a year and a half years old when he would stare at pretty women in stores. Whenever a pretty girl would talk to him, he would start clapping and cheering.

There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning

[Ashtanga 0]

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Sarah Michelle Geller

I have met Sarah Michelle Gellar. Not quite all that in real life. Very petite. Too petite.

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Sarah Michelle Geller

I have met Sarah Michelle Gellar. Not quite all that in real life. Very petite. Too petite.

Well I will take your word for it. Because with your previous avatar of Phoebe Cates, I can see you have good taste. Man I loved that scene from, Fast times at Ridgemont high.

If I could make a wish, I think I'd pass.
Can't think of anything I need
No cigarettes, no sleep, no light, no sound.
Nothing to eat, no books to read.

[Ashtanga 0]

I met her, Neve Campbell, and Courtney Cox on the set of Scream 2. I remember that Sarah and Courtney looked anorexic skinny. Not attractive. Neve was perfect though. She is a very cool person. Courtney yelled at the security guards to "get these damn people (extras) away from me!" when the camera was not recording.

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Walt. That's FUNNY!

Well, he said dogs and monkeys!

Walt

Where do you find this stuff!?!?

"Mediocre people don't like high achievers, and high achievers don't like mediocre people." - SIX TIME National Champion coach Nick Saban

[BillyVance 35]

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I met her, Neve Campbell, and Courtney Cox on the set of Scream 2. I remember that Sarah and Courtney looked anorexic skinny. Not attractive. Neve was perfect though. She is a very cool person. Courtney yelled at the security guards to "get these damn people (extras) away from me!" when the camera was not recording.

And Courtney's home roots are right nearby in Birmingham, AL... I guess living in LA has robbed her southern charm...

"Mediocre people don't like high achievers, and high achievers don't like mediocre people." - SIX TIME National Champion coach Nick Saban

[Diversgodown 0]

I don't think it was meant as what you find attractive but is there a natural felling that is inherent in us, or do we learn it from society. BOOBIES mmmmm

***Glory Favors the Bold***

[Shotgun 1]

I think that it depends on how much booze that said attractive person gives to you.

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I don't think it was meant as what you find attractive but is there a natural felling that is inherent in us, or do we learn it from society. BOOBIES mmmmm

What is it that you are referring to as being learned? Are you referring to sexual orientation?

If I could make a wish, I think I'd pass.
Can't think of anything I need
No cigarettes, no sleep, no light, no sound.
Nothing to eat, no books to read.

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What is it that you are referring to as being learned?

The original question was not intended to have anything to do with sexual orientation or what physical qualities attract you to a person. I’m asking about Sexual Attraction period. Do we naturally have the ability to be sexually attracted to a person? Or do we learn it as we go?

neilp

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Sarah Michelle Geller

I have met Sarah Michelle Gellar. Not quite all that in real life. Very petite. Too petite.

Does that mean you are now going to quit stalking TequilaGirl since she is petite.(I have a feeling the answer is no)

Fly it like you stole it!

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I don't think it was meant as what you find attractive but is there a natural felling that is inherent in us, or do we learn it from society. BOOBIES mmmmm

What is it that you are referring to as being learned? Are you referring to sexual orientation?

Read Skips below. I don't think it is something learned, or adopted kids with gay parents would grow up gay right (Wrong)!!! Plus I don't think anyone could have tought me to be so perverted "Ok there was this sea cucumber that walked up to this BOOBIE and said"

"well cucumbers don't talk but this is a joke and in jokes everybody talk"

***Glory Favors the Bold***

[demoknite 0]

The goal of all animals is to reproduce to keep the species going. Sex is hard wired into the human brain. We are no different that any other living creature in that respect. Please post specific questions as I could post ten pages on the subject.