ChrisD 0 #26 May 20, 2013 You should know that the "Toilet Seat" discussion scares the heck out of most males, that are, err, well endowed with an abundance of excess flesh,... Think the lid coming down uncontrolled,... Q: Can people change? A: Yes, unless it's your boyfriend/ girlfiend and your contimplating marrage. C Q: Do people change? A: Yes, but keep in mind everyone is the same, we only think we are different. Go out and do something fun! Go out and do something that you enjoy doing! Just you. But what do I know, "I only have one tandem jump." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skydiver604 0 #27 May 21, 2013 yes people can change, changes from a positive to a negative are easy to do, require very little effort, change from a negative to a positive is more difficult in that you have to change or reprogram your subconscious thought pattern or behavior which takes an average of 6 to 12 months, this involves consciously practicing and enforcing the positive behavior on a daily basis until it is fully programmed into your subconscious and becomes second nature / automatic. For a more in depth look at this and how it's done do some research on Anthony Robbins "Unleash the Power Within" "The greater danger for most of us is not that our aim is too high and we miss it, but that it is too low and we reach it." - Michelangelo Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites