promise5 17 #1 January 13, 2016 Or committed to each other for those that don't believe in marriage.No matter how slowly you say oranges it never sounds like gullible. Believe me I tried. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wmw999 2,558 #2 January 13, 2016 5 years until we decided. We were living together for 4 of them. We've been married about 7 years Wendy P.There is nothing more dangerous than breaking a basic safety rule and getting away with it. It removes fear of the consequences and builds false confidence. (tbrown) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Texbubba 0 #3 January 13, 2016 Not long enough. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dzswoop717 5 #4 January 13, 2016 One year, celebrated our 25th wedding anniversary tonight. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rickendiver 6 #5 January 13, 2016 2 months until we were engaged. Married 1 year later. (And it wasn't a "shotgun" wedding ) We just celebrated our 41st anniversary Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NewGuy2005 53 #6 January 13, 2016 Two years. Married thirty. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jimjumper 25 #7 January 13, 2016 One year, then engaged. I spent 2 years stationed overseas, coming home for 10 days every six months and running up huge phone bills. We got married on my return stateside. 20 years this last December. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
oldwomanc6 60 #8 January 13, 2016 We were a couple immediately upon meeting, were engaged at a year, married 6 months later, and have been married over 32 years. We did not live together before marriage, FWIW, but we did meet naked in a hot tub, because it was too wet to jump. lisa WSCR 594 FB 1023 CBDB 9 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Glitch 0 #9 January 13, 2016 Dated 8 yrs, married 19.Randomly f'n thingies up since before I was born... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JerryBaumchen 1,451 #10 January 13, 2016 Hi 5, Four months; best decision I've ever made even though it ended in divorce after 24 yrs. Jerry Baumchen Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hcsvader 1 #11 January 13, 2016 6 monthsHave you seen my pants? it"s a rough life, Livin' the dream >:) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jceman 1 #12 January 13, 2016 Known for 13 years, we lived in the same neighborhood since 2nd grade; Dated for 2 years and 10 months, first date was Homecoming our senior year of high school; We have been married for 47 years and 5 months. Faster horses, younger women, older whiskey, more money. Why do they call it "Tourist Season" if we can't shoot them? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sparish 0 #13 January 13, 2016 Engaged after 3 months, married at 1 year. Will celebrate 11 years together this May. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JohnMitchell 16 #14 January 13, 2016 Started dating at the end of July, married 2nd of June the next summer. If you know you want it, why wait forever? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AlanS 1 #15 January 13, 2016 Two and a half-ish years. We meet in college in a differential equations class that started at 8 AM in the morning. She was a "chemistry/bio-statistics" major and I was "engineering physics". We didn't start off dating instead were working on homework together. Then we didn't see each other for a year because we were taking different classes and both very busy. (One thing we both had in common is we both were paying our own way through college without help from family. As a result neither of us partied or dated. We both worked our asses off just trying to survive and get our degrees.) Then by chance we had a second class together. It was a Math/CS class - an elective on the new program language called Mathmatica, taught by Steve Wolfram, and this class was for beta testing it before release. We did a joint project together. This time, one thing led to another, and we were living together in about 6 months. When we both were about to graduate from college, she was likely to head to New York and I had a job in Texas waiting for me. So, we had a decision to make. Don't get married and go our separate ways after college or get married and stay together. I was skydiving by this time and had about 36 jumps. She wasn't a big fan of skydiving. Nor was she a big fan of my motorcycle because of the accident I was in. When we decided to get married, I made her move to Texas with me, and she made me stop skydiving. (The accident took care of the motor cycle). We are now divorced with two kids. I do ask myself if I would make the same decision again about getting married to her. My answer to that is "yes" just because of the kids. I cannot picture a life without them and would do it all over again just for them. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PixieUK 0 #16 January 13, 2016 Got engaged 4 months after 1st date,, married on 2 year anniversary of 1st date, divorced after 10 years as we grew apart.A mind once stretched by a new idea never regains its original dimensions - Oliver Wendell Holmes Jr Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rifleman 70 #17 January 13, 2016 8 years, living together for 7 before wedding, married 18 years this year.Atheism is a Non-Prophet Organisation Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rick 67 #18 January 13, 2016 we knew each other for a month before we started dating, engaged 2 months later, married 6 months after that and celebrated out 33rd anniversary last yearYou can't be drunk all day if you don't start early! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mr2mk1g 10 #19 January 13, 2016 Been together over 7 years and I have no intention of ever getting married. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CSpenceFLY 1 #20 January 13, 2016 Dated 5 yrs, planned the wedding in 6 wks, married for 25 yrs this past Oct. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BillyVance 34 #21 January 13, 2016 Started dating early 1998, moved in together mid-1999 in an apartment, bought our house mid-2000, got married October 2000 under the 150 year old oak tree in the front yard in front of 100 guests. Still going."Mediocre people don't like high achievers, and high achievers don't like mediocre people." - SIX TIME National Champion coach Nick Saban Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Phillbo 11 #22 January 13, 2016 We were together for 25 years and just got married last June. People say it will never last because we rushed into it Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TheCaptain 2 #23 January 13, 2016 We dated for 3 years before we were married and have been married for 13 years so farKirk He's dead Jim Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skymama 37 #24 January 13, 2016 Well, it started with him flirting with me on dz.com in 2006, and then there were a lot of twists and turns before he finally decided to marry me in 2014. Our two year anniversary is next month!She is Da Man, and you better not mess with Da Man, because she will lay some keepdown on you faster than, well, really fast. ~Billvon Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ryoder 1,590 #25 January 13, 2016 oldwomanc6 We were a couple immediately upon meeting, were engaged at a year, married 6 months later, and have been married over 32 years. We did not live together before marriage, FWIW, but we did meet naked in a hot tub, because it was too wet to jump. Soooo...the first time you two met with clothes on, were you able to recognize each others faces?"There are only three things of value: younger women, faster airplanes, and bigger crocodiles" - Arthur Jones. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites