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Andy_Copland

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well he still gets pm and he said he wants people to abuse him in his absence :S I personally think he gets a sexual kick out of Us abusing him;):D:D:D



Fine, let him wank himself off in his step-mom's bedroom and let "cuntchops" catch him in the act! :D:D:D:D:D:D
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He's definitely banned. Wonder for how long? This thread he started is the last post he made... Man that was quick!! :o


In other words, don't mess with skymama! :ph34r:
"Mediocre people don't like high achievers, and high achievers don't like mediocre people." - SIX TIME National Champion coach Nick Saban

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he's right, I can't love him like I do the kids I carried for 9 months, ..



Not to go all speaker's corner, but as an adoptive child of parents with a natural child-Wrong, you can, they do, it showed.
I am not the man. But the man knows my name...and he's worried

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Yeah, I did a search on his name before I asked to see if I could find out why he got banned from bonfire but the search came up short.



Looks like he was a bit naughty on March 2.... couple of things in the recycle bin. But, maybe he's realized what a naughty, naughty boy he was and he's going to turn it all around and be the picture perfect child to HH, skymama and to his step mom!! :P:P:P

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ask Skymama:D if you dare :ph34r:;):D:D



Ok why don't you brainiacs pull together your collective 3 brain cells and ask HIM?! :S

Good Lord the boy's PM's are still on; somebody even mentioned it earlier in this very thread.

For the love of all things...why must I always solve the simplest of problems for people?!? >:(:D
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ask Skymama:D if you dare :ph34r:;):D:D



Ok why don't you brainiacs pull together your collective 3 brain cells and ask HIM?! :S

Good Lord the boy's PM's are still on; somebody even mentioned it earlier in this very thread.

For the love of all things...why must I always solve the simplest of problems for people?!? >:(:D



Thanks for clearing that up. Where would we be without you.:D

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Thanks for clearing that up. Where would we be without you.:D



Well, they don't call me 'Captain Obvious' for nothing! B|


Oh, wait a minute...:|

:P


Anyhoo, Andy has been a very bad boy, and hasn't had time to post in the bonfire ANYWAY due to his intense social life, which is either going to earn him the title of 'hero' or send him to hell, one or the other. :)
BTW, he said he doesn't mind going to hell, as long as he's smothered in gravy and served with a side of fava beans and some of my delicious tea. :|
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I have been a step mom for 10 years now, it is quite possibly the hardest thing I have ever done. My son, was 18 months when I met his dad, I tried from the very begining to bond with him, it has never happened. I love him very much and care for him deeply, I want to see him grow up and be successful, but we have a very distant relationship because he hates me. No, he hasnt told me to my face, but I have overheard him tell his younger brothers and sisters that. And also in his over all "mannerisms" its very apparent. I am very strict, but not just with him, I am with all the kids, they all have chores and do others things around the house as needed. All of my kids do have alot on their shoulders b/c I am the only parent there full time, there dad works 3 hours away at a DZ and isnt home very much, so its upto me to be the fulltime parent to 4 kids. Im sure my story has nothing to do with yours, but I just wanted to chime in as a step-mom. I think I am pretty good, but whenever my son gets his feathers fluffed he runs to dad who has told me for the past 10 years that I don't love him like I do the kids we had together, well he's right, I can't love him like I do the kids I carried for 9 months, but it doesnt mean I love him any less. I would take a bullet for him just as I would my biological kids. I work fulltime and scarafice ALOT so that they can have more... hopefully one day they will all appreciate it, becuase right now they don't....:|



It's too bad it has to be that way. I hope you understand where he is coming form, though. His parents created a broken home for him and now his dad has started a family with another woman. Looking at is from his perspective, I can understand why he might not have that "connection" with you.

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So your dad married a woman who doesn't like his child? How nice of him.



And that happens often. I experienced this when my dad married his wife. I can say that she tried very hard the first couple of months, then she must have realized what she had gotten herself into! She raised hell after that and my dad would not hold his ground nor stand up for us. She is pure evil, and a house should fall on her any day now! ;):D:D

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others mean and rueful of the western dream"

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I have been a step mom for 10 years now, it is quite possibly the hardest thing I have ever done. My son, was 18 months when I met his dad, I tried from the very begining to bond with him, it has never happened. I love him very much and care for him deeply, I want to see him grow up and be successful, but we have a very distant relationship because he hates me. No, he hasnt told me to my face, but I have overheard him tell his younger brothers and sisters that. And also in his over all "mannerisms" its very apparent. I am very strict, but not just with him, I am with all the kids, they all have chores and do others things around the house as needed. All of my kids do have alot on their shoulders b/c I am the only parent there full time, there dad works 3 hours away at a DZ and isnt home very much, so its upto me to be the fulltime parent to 4 kids. Im sure my story has nothing to do with yours, but I just wanted to chime in as a step-mom. I think I am pretty good, but whenever my son gets his feathers fluffed he runs to dad who has told me for the past 10 years that I don't love him like I do the kids we had together, well he's right, I can't love him like I do the kids I carried for 9 months, but it doesnt mean I love him any less. I would take a bullet for him just as I would my biological kids. I work fulltime and scarafice ALOT so that they can have more... hopefully one day they will all appreciate it, becuase right now they don't....:|



It's too bad it has to be that way. I hope you understand where he is coming form, though. His parents created a broken home for him and now his dad has started a family with another woman. Looking at is from his perspective, I can understand why he might not have that "connection" with you.



If his mom had been in the picture I might agree, but the last time she saw him he was 5 years old, since then, no calls, no letters, no nothing and my in laws in live in the same town as her. Even when he was there all of last summer, she made no attempts to see him...:( I am the only "mom" he has known. I potty trained him, I saw him ride his bike for the first time, I held his hand the first day of kindergarten, I have done everything for him that a mom should do....

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I have been a step mom for 10 years now, it is quite possibly the hardest thing I have ever done. My son, was 18 months when I met his dad, I tried from the very begining to bond with him, it has never happened. I love him very much and care for him deeply, I want to see him grow up and be successful, but we have a very distant relationship because he hates me. No, he hasnt told me to my face, but I have overheard him tell his younger brothers and sisters that. And also in his over all "mannerisms" its very apparent. I am very strict, but not just with him, I am with all the kids, they all have chores and do others things around the house as needed. All of my kids do have alot on their shoulders b/c I am the only parent there full time, there dad works 3 hours away at a DZ and isnt home very much, so its upto me to be the fulltime parent to 4 kids. Im sure my story has nothing to do with yours, but I just wanted to chime in as a step-mom. I think I am pretty good, but whenever my son gets his feathers fluffed he runs to dad who has told me for the past 10 years that I don't love him like I do the kids we had together, well he's right, I can't love him like I do the kids I carried for 9 months, but it doesnt mean I love him any less. I would take a bullet for him just as I would my biological kids. I work fulltime and scarafice ALOT so that they can have more... hopefully one day they will all appreciate it, becuase right now they don't....:|



It's too bad it has to be that way. I hope you understand where he is coming form, though. His parents created a broken home for him and now his dad has started a family with another woman. Looking at is from his perspective, I can understand why he might not have that "connection" with you.


If his mom had been in the picture I might agree, but the last time she saw him he was 5 years old, since then, no calls, no letters, no nothing and my in laws in live in the same town as her. Even when he was there all of last summer, she made no attempts to see him...:( I am the only "mom" he has known. I potty trained him, I saw him ride his bike for the first time, I held his hand the first day of kindergarten, I have done everything for him that a mom should do....


I am the kid in question here.... My name is Joey, Misty (mamajumps) is my ex step mother, and I would like to share my side of the story here. Granted, this post is hella old (I don't even know how I stumbled across this to be honest) but I feel like I need to address this.

Its not that I hated her. Granted, we didn't get along too well and there was alot of struggle between us. I was an angry, confused, and hurt little kid. It is true that my mother wasn't there much. But I did have very clear memory of her and I didn't understand the situation at the time. So I was angry and confused about that (I would like to add here that I found a box of letters that my mother had sent me through the years that I was never told about). I was never in a stable environment. I never was able to keep friends because we were constantly moving around. I was picked on and bullied excessively, both at school, and at home by my sister. My sister was ruthless. It was always a power struggle between us, and constant fighting. I was the oldest but she was the princess. I will say that a lot of the problems that Misty and I had weren't because of our relationship. Sure, there were things about the household that I didn't like: Constant yelling, Nobody ever listening to my side of things, constantly getting yelled at and in trouble for things I didn't do ect ect... All normal things for a family with 4 kids. But I always felt like the outsider, and I always felt like I got singled out quite a bit, and my sister made damn sure of that. Of course, My sister was Misty's first biological kid so more often than not Misty would take sides with her and because of that nothing ever seemed fair. I know Misty loved all of us. I know she worked her ass off to be the best mom she could be. I am also well aware of how hard it was for her to try to raise 4 kids mostly on her own, Dad was there... but not really. He was always off doing his thing while we were at the house. But I absolutely loved it when I would get to go with my dad. It was a break from all of the bullshit. My "hatred" toward her was mostly the result of bottled up anger and confusion and frustration that had to be aimed at something because I didn't know how to deal with it in a healthy manner, and she just happened to be in the cross-hairs, she was my scapegoat for all of my problems. For the most part, I was pretty unfair to her from the beginning.

Now with that being said, she did and said some pretty fucked up shit to me through the years. I wont get into too much detail there but it wasn't all one sided at all. Our relationship was problematic from both sides. I'm not sure what her issue was, or if it was just a response from dealing with my shit for so long. I don't know. I don't really care at this point.... I know none of you guys really care about this, but I wanted to type it out and get it off of my chest just to feel better. I would also like to admit that my relationship with my current step mom wasn't much better until after I moved out of my parents house, and for a lot of the same reasons.
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Is it natural for a step mother to absolutely hate your guts if you're the satan spawn of her husband and his ex?



Yes. Step fathers as well. In most (but not all) natural circumstances, they'd kill you.

You are a burden on resources that would otherwise be spent on their own genetic material. No judgement; simple fact of nature.
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Well, aren't you glad you're all grown up and don't have to live with them?



It is nice living on my own.
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